Susanna Wesley’s 16 Rules of Parenthood

Susannah Wesley was the 25th child of twenty-five, and the mother of nineteen children, including John and Charles Wesley. Through much adversity, she dedicated her life to instilling a sense of Christian destiny into each of her children. Her children went on to change the world.


Here are 16 rules she laid down in her home.

• Eating between meals not allowed. 
• As children they are to be in bed by 8PM
• They are required to take medicine without complaining.
• Subdue self-will in a child, and those working together with God to save the child’s soul. 
• To teach a child to pray as soon as he can speak. 
• Require all to be still during Family Worship. 
• Give them nothing that they cry for, and only that when asked for politely.
• To prevent lying, punish no fault which is first confessed and repented of.
• Never allow a sinful act to go unpunished.
• Never punish a child twice for a single offense. 
• Comment and reward good behavior. 
• Any attempt to please, even if poorly performed, should be commended.
• Preserve property rights, even in smallest matters.
• Strictly observe all promises.
• Require no daughter to work before she can read well. 
• Teach children to fear the rod.